Thank you for the book recommendation. I was looking for something similar a while ago, and now it made the click. :)

However, I would like to challenge the idea of a person not doing you harm unless you wish it. It happens that some people are ”kind” with their bullies, and say sorry, even if they do not mean it etc. And even in this kindness, the bully will get mad because ”how can you be kind with me?”. Then they follow-up ending to beat the victim because the victim was not aggressive instead. So … what is the deal here? :)

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